A MONTH OF PURPOSE · CHURCH CAMPAIGN KIT
FOR SMALL GROUP LEADERS
Small Group Guide
Four sessions, matched to the sermon series week for week. Each runs about 45–60 minutes: welcome, scripture, discussion, a written exercise, and a closing prayer.
A NOTE FOR LEADERS You don't need to be an expert on the book to run this — you just need to keep the conversation moving and make it safe for people to answer honestly. Read the session once before your group meets. There are more questions than you'll need; skip any that don't fit your group, and never make the written exercise feel mandatory to share out loud.
SESSION 01 · MATCHES SERMON WEEK 1
Find Your Purpose
ICEBREAKER (10 MIN)

"Tell us about something you built with your own hands — big or small — that almost nobody else ever noticed."

RECAP

Sunday's message named the ache underneath our whole culture right now — what's the point of being human in an age of machines? — and answered it two ways. Isaiah 2:4 calls us to lay down the sword (criticism, outrage, tearing down) and pick up the shovel (building). Psalm 139:13 answers the "am I replaceable" fear directly: you were knit together, by name, on purpose — the opposite of mass-produced. Nicholas Winton lived that out: he quietly saved 669 children with nothing but paperwork and told no one for fifty years.

READ TOGETHER

Isaiah 2:4 and Psalm 139:13.

DISCUSS
  1. Where in your life right now are you holding a sword — criticizing, venting, tearing down — more than you're holding a shovel and actually building something?
  2. Nicholas Winton did the quiet, unglamorous work of saving 669 children and never told a soul for fifty years. What does that challenge in the way you measure your own impact?
  3. "What will you replace the problem with?" Think of something you tend to criticize or complain about. What would it look like to build something instead?
  4. This series is going to ask about the fire, the strength, and the ache God's placed in you — Passion, Gift, Burden. Which of those three words jumps out at you first, and why?
WRITE IT DOWN

Name one "shovel" action — something you could build, not criticize — that you'll actually do this week: "This week, instead of just noticing  , I'm going to build  ."

CLOSING PRAYER

Thank God for the shovel He's already placed in every hand in the room. Ask Him to use the next four weeks to help each person uncover, not invent, what they were built to build.

SESSION 02 · MATCHES SERMON WEEK 2
Lessons from the Burning Bush
ICEBREAKER (10 MIN)

"If nobody paid you and nobody was watching, what would you still find yourself doing?"

RECAP

Sunday's message named the three things God has already placed in every one of us: Passion, the fire in your bones (a bush that burns but isn't consumed); Gift, the strength in your hands (Moses' ordinary shepherd's staff, asked about by God Himself); and Burden, the ache in your heart (God saying "I have heard them crying out"). This week we simply name all three, honestly, one at a time.

READ TOGETHER

Exodus 3:1–4:17, Deuteronomy 28:12, and 1 Peter 4:10.

DISCUSS
  1. Passion: What makes you lose track of time? What could you talk about for an hour without getting bored?
  2. Gift: What feels effortless to you but seems to genuinely impress other people? What do others see in you that you've overlooked?
  3. Burden: What situations make you say, "someone has to do something about this"? What news or need can you talk about for hours?
  4. Which of these three feels easiest for you to name? Which feels hardest, and why?
WRITE IT DOWN

Fill in each blank on its own, without trying to connect them yet: "My passion is  . My gift is  . My burden is  ." Keep this in your notes — next week is about what you choose to build with it.

CLOSING PRAYER

Thank God for the fire, the strength, and the ache He's already placed in each person here. Ask for the courage to name them honestly instead of downplaying them.

SESSION 03 · MATCHES SERMON WEEK 3
Your Life Signature
ICEBREAKER (10 MIN)

"Of the three — passion, gift, burden — which two do you feel like you already have, and which one feels hardest to find in your own life?"

RECAP

Sunday's message named what happens when only two circles overlap: passion + gift with no burden looks good on paper but feels empty by Thursday; gift + burden with no passion becomes duty that grinds you down; passion + burden with no gift is good intentions with no traction. But when all three converge, like they did for Mother Teresa, something settles — that convergence is your Life Signature. Then came the twist: Nimrod and Noah both had real strength converging in their lives, and used it in opposite directions. Nimrod built a name for himself at Babel. Noah built an ark that saved a future nobody else believed in. Your Life Signature is the engraving on the handle of your shovel — it doesn't decide which direction you swing it.

READ TOGETHER

Exodus 3:5, Genesis 11:4, and Genesis 6:5, 9.

DISCUSS
  1. Which of the three "two circle" traps — empty success, exhausting duty, or heartbreak without traction — feels most familiar in your life right now?
  2. Mother Teresa's gift wasn't strategy or scale, it was presence. What's a "quiet" gift you have that doesn't look impressive but genuinely matters?
  3. Nimrod's strength built a name for himself; Noah's built a future for others. Honestly, which direction do you feel your own gifts pulling toward right now, and why?
  4. What would it look like this week to let your passion, gift, and burden move a little closer together — aimed at building for others rather than for yourself?
NAME IT

Name one place your passion, gift, and burden already seem to overlap, even a little: "I think my Life Signature might have something to do with  ." Then be honest: right now, are you more tempted to use that overlap to build a name for yourself, or to build something for someone else?

CLOSING PRAYER

Thank God that these three circles were never missing — only waiting to be recognized. Ask Him to let the convergence settle into each person here, and to make each of us a Noah rather than a Nimrod.

SESSION 04 · MATCHES SERMON WEEK 4 · CLOSING SESSION
Start at Home
ICEBREAKER (10 MIN)

"Describe your kitchen table or living room on a normal weeknight. Who's there, and what's actually happening?"

RECAP

Sunday closed the series with the Window Exercise: standing outside your own home, looking through your own window, and realizing the first expression of your purpose is right there. Susanna Wesley never knew her faithfulness at a kitchen table with nineteen children would ripple out to eighty million people today. Purpose doesn't prove itself on a stage — it proves itself at home, first.

READ TOGETHER

Matthew 25:14–30 and Genesis 2:15.

DISCUSS
  1. Did you try the Window Exercise this week? What did you notice when you looked at your own life from the outside?
  2. Where are you most tempted to think something doesn't count unless it's big, seen, or celebrated?
  3. Susanna Wesley had no idea her kitchen-table faithfulness would matter as much as it did. Who in your life might be shaped by something you're doing right now that feels too small to matter?
  4. What's one concrete way you could invest in the person or people closest to you this week, instead of waiting for a bigger opportunity?
SEND-OFF (BUILD ON SESSIONS 2 & 3)

Go around the group. Anyone willing can share what they named as their Life Signature in session 3 — and what building for others instead of for themselves has looked like this week. Then each person names one specific person at home or nearby they'll invest in this week as a direct result of this series.

CLOSING PRAYER

Pray for each person by name if your group is comfortable with that. Ask God to let each person's Life Signature take root first at home, with the people already closest to them — and thank Him that this was never something to invent, only to find.